Depression

Relocating Home / New Job/ Marital Breakup

I initially called Harj due to some advice from a close friend. They had tried the healing and recommended it highly. I was at a very low point in my life, and had just separated from my husband. It was both a confusing and a very painful time for me. In many ways I felt lost, even unsure about whether I actually wanted to separate. I was low in confidence after years of trying to fix a relationship which my partner was gradually destroying. I had become someone who was more secure in picking up my partner's mess, than dealing with my own needs. It was a very scary time, stepping away and coming back to myself to have a look at what I actually needed. As the separation was happening I was in constant anxiety, about the future, about my partner and mostly what I was going to do next. It was one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do, to put down my life and walk away.

When I called Harj, I actually did not have very many people left to turn to in my life. Every one was moving along in their day to day business, and one thing I learnt, even though everything had stopped for me, life was still going on for everyone else. It was a lonely time to say the least. There was no judgement from Harj about my situation, she just listened to what I was saying, and from what I remember I was not saying very much at the time. It is all a bit of a haze now.

There was some talking in our session, but not very much. Harj was okay to proceed with the healing, and said she did not need the in and outs of every detail in my relationship. So we only talked about what I felt comfortable with. I did have a few treatments with Harj. The moments that I was with her in the healing I knew I was not alone, and each session was like a step closer to moving on.

After the first couple of sessions I secured myself a job and this was one of my main concerns, as I was going to have to start over and support myself. This actually happened within days of the second treatment with Harj. As time continued I started to accept what had happened, and from each session I was getting more and more strength. I perceived my husband differently to, as before I met Harj I was blaming myself for many aspects of the marriage. I started to feel as if the separation was in fact a good thing, as the limes revealed how much I had changed in my time with him. The day I came for healing, I was vulnerable and extremely lacking in confidence, yet with each session I could feel more and more brightness coming in. I made new friends, got in touch with some old ones, and gained more and more confidence in my working environment.

I remember Harj saying to me, how different I looked, and after about five treatments I felt a real turning point. I was no longer relying on reconciliation, and if there was ever to be one, I now understood it was him that had to make the changes. This level of strength came quite quickly, as I was seeing Harj on a weekly basis.

Had it not been for the spiritual healing I don't know which way things would have gone. I was so vulnerable at the time; I may even have fallen back in to the relationship. It was definitely the easier thing to do at the time. Today I feel I hold my own, and I am able have healthy relationships without that sort of dependency in which I felt so unhappy. These treatments helped me put down very quickly a very difficult part of my life and gave me the strength to stand on my own and start again to create a new life. When I came to Harj I had nowhere else left to turn, now I have my own space, my own job and most of all, I am not living in a state of anxiety.

Anne Smith,
Office Manager,
London

Property Sale

Raj had already cured me of my depression, which made me feel confident that he could help me sell my house too. I was trying to sell a property which I spent a lot of time and money refurbishing. There didn't seem to be many viewings even though the market was buoyant, and I still had to pay the mortgage. There were more viewings after I had a treatment with Raj, he also suggested that I stick to the original selling price after I received an offer £10,000 under the asking price.

On one hand I wanted to negotiate, but I stuck with what was advised by Raj from his analysis from my treatment. Two weeks passed, and I got the full asking price from another buyer. The transaction did take a further three weeks, but I did get the money which I would otherwise have lost.

Mike Bull,
Self Employed Builder,
East Sussex, now living in Ohio USA

PMS Pre-Menstrual Tension & Relationship Difficulties

I was unable to take control of any situation, from minor to serious problems, which lead to a lot of depression. What didn't help was an issue from a past boyfriend from whom I couldn't move away from. Raj was very caring and passionate about my wellbeing and I could see he wanted the best for me. I did visit a few times, but I needed to understand as I progressed. I gained confidence and improvement in my self-esteem and taking control of my life and situations. I started to believe in myself and striking for my goals and realising that problems only occur if you create them yourself, and if you dismiss this, it can be harder to move forward. It took me a bit of time, but I can truly believe this now.

I also did the healing treatment for my menstrual cycle pains, the pains seem to be less, and the side effects of my depression, is more balanced during my cycle.

I can honestly say that I wouldn't have been the person I am today, if I did not do this healing treatment. I am very grateful, that I went through this process of change.

Anonymous,
Self Employed,
Redbridge, Essex

Miscarriage/ Pregnancy

I called Reach Healing as recommended by sister, who saw him for treatment a couple of months ago, after Raj suggested to her that he might be able to help me. I was having a succession of miscarriages and it put a huge strain on my relationship, and affected me personally and me as a woman. The doctors could not find the reason why I was miscarrying, but after losing 4 babies, normally after week 15, I became desperate and very depressed.

I knew how expensive IVF was going to be, as another family member had gone down this road, and how un-natural the whole process could become, and I was worried that I'd only miscarry again, and couldn't bear the thought of us not having a family. The first session with Raj had an enormous impact on my emotions, I felt like I'd just woken up from some sort of struggle. I also felt a shift and release from the anxiety that stopped me doing the basic of tasks more easily.

Raj suggested that a part of my problem was to stop myself from sharing my pregnancy news with anyone, as there were not good intentions from someone close to me. As I felt more aware of my surroundings, I could see who this person was, so refrained from sharing anything with her or anyone else who I didn't get a good vibe from. After my third session, my depression eased considerably. I was told by Raj that the initial problem was resolved and that I should fall pregnant, but to be patient. I felt like I could be kinder to myself, something I forgot about for what seemed a long time.

I gave birth to a baby son just after Christmas, and it just feels as though everything has a more natural flow, and has falling into place, but I know it could have been quite different, if I was not open or trusting enough to give this a go. I would highly recommend Reach Healing's approach and the positive affects it has shown me in my time of real need.

Anonymous,
Personal Assistant,
East London

Menopause & Hot Flushes

The effect of my menopause caused me to suffer very badly, with extreme hot flushes, restless and sleepless nights, mood swings and I was irritable and drained and losing a lot of blood, but I noticed how these symptoms reduced, since initially doing the treatment for my knee.

My Doctors advised me to take HRT tablets after my blood test was done, which I refused to take, as there was a strong chance that by taking them, could result in depression, and gaining weight. I decided to try Reach Healings method instead.

My first treatment displayed an intense blockage, which needed further treatment for a shift to occur. This was confirmed as I got a subtle feeling soon as I bathed that gave me temporary clarity. The Second treatment which was with limes and flowers, the hot flushes really calmed down and were less intense. I was now able to deal with my emotions without feeling like I couldn’t. A couple of days later, I literately felt I was being bought back to a normal state with my cycle. I haven’t experienced anything more effects of flushes, heavy blood lose, or the sudden emotional turmoil, where it made everything felt impossible to deal with. And it has now been nearly three cycles since, and I can honestly say, that things have remained that way.

I totally believe in Reach Healing’s Treatments, for me this has been more effective than anything I’ve tried. Raj even suggested that I go and see my GP first, even if it was for a medical opinion. My general wellbeing and health has improved since doing the lime treatment, and I very grateful and thankful to Raj. I feel more positive, less stressed and generally happier. Basically I would do this over and over again if any further problem occurs with my health thank you Raj.

Elaine Edwards,
Receptionist
Camberwell, London

Alcohol Addiction & Depressions – Distance Healing

Hi Raj, your package arrived last Saturday after you did the Distant Healing Treatment. I have been using the incense and the rose water every night since Friday, I also started meditating with the candle last night.

The changes in the last week have been amazing. I stopped drinking altogether 10 days ago. I already feel myself moving away from wanting to use medication and have so far halved my dose of anti-depressants with no side effects. My sleep has been so relaxing and the bad dreams have all but disappeared. I have tons more energy and drive and have been exercising at least 45 minutes every day since last Sunday. All round I feel so fantastic - happy, relaxed and positive. Thank you so much for your help and I look forward to see what the next treatment is going to bring me.

Thanks again,

Tony
Near Cambridge