Career

Relocating Home / New Job/ Marital Breakup

I initially called Harj due to some advice from a close friend. They had tried the healing and recommended it highly. I was at a very low point in my life, and had just separated from my husband. It was both a confusing and a very painful time for me. In many ways I felt lost, even unsure about whether I actually wanted to separate. I was low in confidence after years of trying to fix a relationship which my partner was gradually destroying. I had become someone who was more secure in picking up my partner's mess, than dealing with my own needs. It was a very scary time, stepping away and coming back to myself to have a look at what I actually needed. As the separation was happening I was in constant anxiety, about the future, about my partner and mostly what I was going to do next. It was one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do, to put down my life and walk away.

When I called Harj, I actually did not have very many people left to turn to in my life. Every one was moving along in their day to day business, and one thing I learnt, even though everything had stopped for me, life was still going on for everyone else. It was a lonely time to say the least. There was no judgement from Harj about my situation, she just listened to what I was saying, and from what I remember I was not saying very much at the time. It is all a bit of a haze now.

There was some talking in our session, but not very much. Harj was okay to proceed with the healing, and said she did not need the in and outs of every detail in my relationship. So we only talked about what I felt comfortable with. I did have a few treatments with Harj. The moments that I was with her in the healing I knew I was not alone, and each session was like a step closer to moving on.

After the first couple of sessions I secured myself a job and this was one of my main concerns, as I was going to have to start over and support myself. This actually happened within days of the second treatment with Harj. As time continued I started to accept what had happened, and from each session I was getting more and more strength. I perceived my husband differently to, as before I met Harj I was blaming myself for many aspects of the marriage. I started to feel as if the separation was in fact a good thing, as the limes revealed how much I had changed in my time with him. The day I came for healing, I was vulnerable and extremely lacking in confidence, yet with each session I could feel more and more brightness coming in. I made new friends, got in touch with some old ones, and gained more and more confidence in my working environment.

I remember Harj saying to me, how different I looked, and after about five treatments I felt a real turning point. I was no longer relying on reconciliation, and if there was ever to be one, I now understood it was him that had to make the changes. This level of strength came quite quickly, as I was seeing Harj on a weekly basis.

Had it not been for the spiritual healing I don't know which way things would have gone. I was so vulnerable at the time; I may even have fallen back in to the relationship. It was definitely the easier thing to do at the time. Today I feel I hold my own, and I am able have healthy relationships without that sort of dependency in which I felt so unhappy. These treatments helped me put down very quickly a very difficult part of my life and gave me the strength to stand on my own and start again to create a new life. When I came to Harj I had nowhere else left to turn, now I have my own space, my own job and most of all, I am not living in a state of anxiety.

Anne Smith,
Office Manager,
London

Comunication at Work

I was not happy with my life and circumstances at work, at home (money problems). I was hoping for a better future.The treatment was highly recommended by Raj and his clients. Raj dealt with my problem very professionally and sensitive. I saw him twice and it has improved my communication skills and has given me lots optimism, I see everything in much brighter colours and I have very healthy and full life since.

Ladislav Hubert,
Graphic Designer & Artist,
Croydon, Surrey

Career Progression/ New Job

Because of the treatment benefits I previously received for my back and knee, I was definitely more open to try this to assist me with career progression. Raj and I had already spoke of gearing myself for my long term ambition to working in Europe, or moving up the ladder in my current career path. I was advised to not pay too much attention right now on a future dream which I was keen to pursue, and stay open to the present opportunities, that could be of great benefit and provide a solid foundation, awareness and greater gain more confidences as well as a wealth of experience for my chosen career path for the future, if I had not made any advances of pursuing that now.

I knew this was reasonable and logical approach, thetreatment also assisted me be not so emotional and stagnant in my approach, and gave me greater clarity, where I was overly thinking about scenarios, without anything actually happening.

I went for the job as it was suggested to me after the lime treatment, I was told about the competition from the lime reading, but the job was mine, which did give me greater freedom on the day of my interview, I got offered the job and was even told when I was offered, that it was a close competition.

I am also discussing other ways of exploring this healing technique with Raj to enhance myself generally, as I have become more aware of things generally, and have also gone through changes that are speaking for themselves in my everyday interaction.

Marcel Piquemal
North London

Career Progression/Stress

I first came into contact with Raj when I was reaching the final stages of study for a career change. I was lost and unfocused, unable to concentrate and losing sight of my goals. Raj's treatments helped me reduce my stress levels and study again with a clear mind. Thanks to him and his healing treatment, I was able to work positively towards a stress free pass in my exams.

Anonymous,
Project Manager,
Maida Vale, London

Anger Management/Career Progression

I have known Raj for a long time, for about 10 to 11 years now - and remember him going to the Far East to learn how to give this form of therapy. After he had been back in London practising such treatment, I decided to see him for some healing myself.

At that time I was having a crisis with my career and as a result of that my anger was manifesting so intensely and in inappropriate places and occasions. I started following Raj's advice and to bathe in the lime bath. After about five sessions my career improved. I was promoted by my place of work to a senior level; my working relationships got so much better that even I was so surprised to notice that certain things that used to annoy or anger me ceased to have such an effect on me.
Another benefit that I got out of this treatment was a general improvement in my health. I became calmer and happier.

Thank you, Raj.

George Hall.
South East London