Relocating Home / New Job/ Marital Breakup

I initially called Harj due to some advice from a close friend. They had tried the healing and recommended it highly. I was at a very low point in my life, and had just separated from my husband. It was both a confusing and a very painful time for me. In many ways I felt lost, even unsure about whether I actually wanted to separate. I was low in confidence after years of trying to fix a relationship which my partner was gradually destroying. I had become someone who was more secure in picking up my partner's mess, than dealing with my own needs. It was a very scary time, stepping away and coming back to myself to have a look at what I actually needed. As the separation was happening I was in constant anxiety, about the future, about my partner and mostly what I was going to do next. It was one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do, to put down my life and walk away.

When I called Harj, I actually did not have very many people left to turn to in my life. Every one was moving along in their day to day business, and one thing I learnt, even though everything had stopped for me, life was still going on for everyone else. It was a lonely time to say the least. There was no judgement from Harj about my situation, she just listened to what I was saying, and from what I remember I was not saying very much at the time. It is all a bit of a haze now.

There was some talking in our session, but not very much. Harj was okay to proceed with the healing, and said she did not need the in and outs of every detail in my relationship. So we only talked about what I felt comfortable with. I did have a few treatments with Harj. The moments that I was with her in the healing I knew I was not alone, and each session was like a step closer to moving on.

After the first couple of sessions I secured myself a job and this was one of my main concerns, as I was going to have to start over and support myself. This actually happened within days of the second treatment with Harj. As time continued I started to accept what had happened, and from each session I was getting more and more strength. I perceived my husband differently to, as before I met Harj I was blaming myself for many aspects of the marriage. I started to feel as if the separation was in fact a good thing, as the limes revealed how much I had changed in my time with him. The day I came for healing, I was vulnerable and extremely lacking in confidence, yet with each session I could feel more and more brightness coming in. I made new friends, got in touch with some old ones, and gained more and more confidence in my working environment.

I remember Harj saying to me, how different I looked, and after about five treatments I felt a real turning point. I was no longer relying on reconciliation, and if there was ever to be one, I now understood it was him that had to make the changes. This level of strength came quite quickly, as I was seeing Harj on a weekly basis.

Had it not been for the spiritual healing I don't know which way things would have gone. I was so vulnerable at the time; I may even have fallen back in to the relationship. It was definitely the easier thing to do at the time. Today I feel I hold my own, and I am able have healthy relationships without that sort of dependency in which I felt so unhappy. These treatments helped me put down very quickly a very difficult part of my life and gave me the strength to stand on my own and start again to create a new life. When I came to Harj I had nowhere else left to turn, now I have my own space, my own job and most of all, I am not living in a state of anxiety.

Anne Smith,
Office Manager,

Property Cleansing

Having received some spiritual therapy for personal issues, I had been telling Harj about how difficult things were still feeling for me with in my house although I was starting to really get my life back together in terms of my confidence, work, and relationships outside my home.

As soon as I was back home I felt like I took two steps back and my internal struggles would start again with continual disruption from uninvited family members, and others I felt were just making my life difficult! As Harj had been providing my with treatments, I was starting to get vivid dreams about how negative I was feeling with in the house, and once Harj interpreted them, she suggested a house clearance!

I remember how difficult things got just before the clearance, I started to see what the problems were, and who was bringing in the negativity into my home life, and it became more and more disrupted until I finally did the house cleansing. Harj said, it would block out the negative energy of anything of anyone who may be bringing it in to my home. The more we talked about it, the more I could see exactly what was happening. I felt like the negativity climaxed right before the treatment, and then a sudden silence. I felt like I would be able to hear a pin drop, finally wrapped up in peace!

I can't tell you how much things improved, no more unwanted family visitors! And that was just the start… ha ha. The horrible panic and low mood left me when I was at home, and despite having other treatments, it was not until the house clearance that I felt like I could actually sit in myself at home! I could finally move around my house freely, and no more tip toeing around!

Pat Steer,
Public Sector

PMS Pre-Menstrual Tension & Relationship Difficulties

I was unable to take control of any situation, from minor to serious problems, which lead to a lot of depression. What didn't help was an issue from a past boyfriend from whom I couldn't move away from. Raj was very caring and passionate about my wellbeing and I could see he wanted the best for me. I did visit a few times, but I needed to understand as I progressed. I gained confidence and improvement in my self-esteem and taking control of my life and situations. I started to believe in myself and striking for my goals and realising that problems only occur if you create them yourself, and if you dismiss this, it can be harder to move forward. It took me a bit of time, but I can truly believe this now.

I also did the healing treatment for my menstrual cycle pains, the pains seem to be less, and the side effects of my depression, is more balanced during my cycle.

I can honestly say that I wouldn't have been the person I am today, if I did not do this healing treatment. I am very grateful, that I went through this process of change.

Self Employed,
Redbridge, Essex

Torn Knee Ligaments

I had initially suffered with knee problems since last summer due to falling down a flight of stairs. The accident left me limping for a long while and the pain would disappear and come back randomly. I had a talk with Raj and he explained the whole process of the healing therapy. After a couple of conversations of talking about it and understanding the process and thinking about it, I was ready to try it.

Usually I don’t believe in anything like this but I was willing to give it a shot. Whilst he meditated on the problem, he also realised I had pains in my ankle, which was amazing because almost 2 years ago I had torn a ligament in my ankle, which left it feeling weak ever since. I had never told Raj this because I didn’t really have any problems with it other than the weakness, but as soon as he was able to touch on the problem and talk to me about what the pains and the problems could really mean in my personal life as well as my injury I was more curious on what this was.

While actually doing the set program, all I could think to myself was how much I actually trusted this therapy to work because I was so calm and the smell of the limes in the bath were so dreamlike. At no point in life did I ever think I would be doing something like this. My mother (Sharon Theodule) thought I was crazy but, as soon as I got out of the bath I felt like a different person. I felt as though the feelings of stress and all the unnecessary thoughts in my life had been left in the bath, I also feel more aware of my surroundings. My mother quickly picked up on how much better I looked. The moment I finished, I felt a new keenness to live life better, not to mention my new job and fantastic Christmas which Raj also meditated for.

The treatment has taken the pain away completely and I feel 100% better, I’m so happy with the way I felt and will soon be using this therapy for a second time to help me progress with my new job. And I have recommended this treatment to my mother who is now going to try this for herself.


Jourdan Theodule
Office Admin & Graphic Illustrator
Islington, North London


Emotional fatigue and a general lack of direction in my life was a real problem when I came for treatment at Reach Healing. Having spoken to Raj about various things, he suggested that I try the healing treatment. I consider myself a spiritual and open-minded person, so figured that I had nothing to lose.

Raj was very sensitive, patient and knowledgeable, his manner and demeanour instil confidence. He also made sure that I was clearly aware that my actions would be partially responsible for any successes/breakthroughs following treatment in terms of 'listening' to my body and mind and truly feeling any shifts and/or blockages.

A few days after the treatment, I noticed that I was much calmer and felt mentally stronger. It's now some months on and I have mostly maintained that feeling. I have also been able to look at specific issues objectively and apply an unemotional logic to help them reach a conclusion and gain more confidence in myself and my abilities. I was also sleeping better.

I have tried Reiki as an alternative treatment before however I don't feel that I knew enough about it to gain anything other than physically tangible results (I attempted it for pain relief). I felt a greater level of understanding of the problem I had, how to deal with it, and the results I achieved with this healing!

Heather Watts,
Client Management,
SW London

Comunication at Work

I was not happy with my life and circumstances at work, at home (money problems). I was hoping for a better future.The treatment was highly recommended by Raj and his clients. Raj dealt with my problem very professionally and sensitive. I saw him twice and it has improved my communication skills and has given me lots optimism, I see everything in much brighter colours and I have very healthy and full life since.

Ladislav Hubert,
Graphic Designer & Artist,
Croydon, Surrey